thoughts, desires, and temptations that he will now be conditioned to enjoy and share with you-something he can act on…with you that he cannot-with them!
By your willing to share his lust, you are secretly
THE POWER OF PASSION, MYSTERY, DESIRE, & LUST FOR COMPANIONSHIP: THE STEP ABOVE RELATIONSHIP
Don’t underestimate the power of sexual passion; it coats the entire relationship with an unbreakable polymer that keeps it trump-tight.
With this kind of variety and passion, there will be nothing that your relationship cannot overcome. Passion eradicates perils. When you have ongoing passion in a relationship, you are more 
willing to compromise and work other frivolous and serious things out. Because of the fact that you both know you are having too good a time coming together for sex and passion, you’d look crazy playing tug of war with other relationship issues. Whether you’re married, or simply living together-committed, when two people don’t have enough passion in their relationship + sex life, their willingness to work together is obsolete-and very selfish, cavalier, and blasé. But when they have passion, even the strongest and most serious disagreements turn flirtatious and into a kind of battle of the sexes-in the “fight” to see who actually has the most emotional, mental, or physical control over the entire relationship (yet-because of the passion between them) they both know that nobody (either one of them) is “losing”…regardless whomever “wins.”
never understood two things about married couples and live-ins:
1) Why they spend all that time single-having passionate sex and flings, but then get into a committed relationship and turn into Maw and Paw Kettle; merely climbing on top of one another and “doing their business.”
2) Why they begin to build together (have babies, build credit, homes, a life etc), and fall into the train of thought that “date-night” and occasional flirting is passion enough to hold a relationship together. Sorry, it is not.
When a woman commits to a man (live-in or married) she has to fully
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SWINGING
People tend to swing in an effort to “turn it up in the bedroom” with the same intent that women reach to turn it up in the bedroom by stripping for their man.
Give both considerations get an “e” (for effort) however they both get an “f” (for fail).
They are both: Epic Fails.
When you swing, you invite another body into the sexual relationship between the two of you that once that soul tie is created-it never really leaves. Call me biased, but as a very sexually creative, kinky, and imaginative person, I do pardon people who elect to swing because from their point of view, they too, think it is creative, kinky, and imaginative-however it is the easy way [in and out].
The sex is awesome at best (awkward-at worst), but each time swinging happens it chips away at intimacy that is needed for relationship. With Reverse-Psychology Cheating, the gamut of emotional sex (from slow, tearful, and emotional through to agonizing and aggressively arousing) is so unpredictable in that one moment you may be in the sexual mood to challenge it, and in another moment-you may be in the mood to submit to it. These moments create the kind of intimacy between the two of you that cannot be created with a whole other body between the two of you.
Although swinging is/could be a turn on to watch the pleasure your man or woman is giving to and having with another person while watching and hearing that other person getting pleasure from it, if your sexual imagination is through the roof [as I am going over in this chapter and will be offering you some scenarios on-upcoming] then the same effect (and better) can be obtained without the expense of the perils that your relationship will eventually suffer later by bringing a whole other person in between the two of you (for sex).
Don’t cheat yourself out of explosive private passion between you two by sacrificing the kind of turn-on and kinky sex that you two-alone, can too, create; far more a turn on than swinging due to the sexual agony involved of him literally fucking your mind, fucking your emotions and fucking your body while telling you his desires, lusts, turn ons and head-scenarios about other women.
The fun in swinging doesn’t do the number on a man’s head that Reverse Psychology Cheating does. With RPC you can create the swinging-like experience, but the benefit of RPC –the conditioning of his thoughts, lust, and desires to belong to you at all times…(but for the both of you to use as fuel during sex).
“A LADY IN THE STREETS AND A FREAK IN THE SHEETS”
As a part of being a “lady” we women tend to hold on to standards where we find certain rhetoric to be offensive-regardless whose mouth it exits. We would rather wash our mouths out with soap than to use certain words, and would be ready to cut a man’s testicles off for referring to us as such words (whether jokingly and especially-seriously).
Certain words, namely, like: “B/tch,” “Whore,” “Slut” (and any other variables, versions or subcategories) of the same.
Although we abhor words as such, like most everything; there is a time and a place where there are exceptions to certain rules (and standards). As it pertains to RPC and the type of sex involved, considering the emotion behind it, there may be a time (or two, or three) that “b/tch,” “whore,” and “slut” may be at the tip of your man’s tongue. To that I say, allow him. Aggressive words and aggressive, dominant sex is natural for men. It releases their animal instinct and heightens the experience for them. And when they are allowed to do and say things that they normally would not be able to do and say outside of the bedroom, it turns them on.
During RPC foreplay and sex play, if the fantasy in his head of the woman who was the object of his desire was some woman who
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TYPES OF SEXUAL PLAY & FANTASIES TO PLAY ON IN RPC
As if you can’t tell, I love this RPC method. It allows you to put the spark back into your relations + your sex life because you are role-playing about real things from inside his mind-not just the typical role-play of being the French Maid, schoolgirl, stripper, or stranger; with RPC he’s mostly initiating the scen
arios based upon what he wasn’t able to get off on the variety of women [that he could have], so he may “punish” you.
In doing so, that can be some awesome animalistic aggressive sex for you two, and as well-it can be slow emotional and tearful sex (for you), which in turn, could throw him into an empathetic mode of sex and he could well cry with you-who knows? These RPC scenarios are such that no matter how pre-planned an idea I can give you, each and every time your love-making will turn into its own thing.
I know that I spent the entire part of this chapter telling you to let him have it his way, and by methodology-that is how it works and is supposed to work, because again-your are stealing his thoughts, lust, and desires that he otherwise would not share with you-but rather-his friends (or cheat and act on them altogether).
BUT, we women have thoughts, desires, and lusts too (sometimes).
We’re human.
So as a part of this RPC play, don’t hesitate (on some nights that he has you in tears from fucking you and telling you about how he wanted to tear some other woman down), feel free to sneak it in on him-about how the guy at your job is flirting with you and how you too-have entertained the thought of that handsome, muscular, veiny, young buck tearing you down (too).
