for a certain specific, temporary, or indefinite amount of time he gets a pass to sleep around), to maintain your dignity and self respect as a woman (who LOVES herself) why not simply have the kind of woman in an “open relationship” where communication is to the point of—if he sleeps around/has the desire to sleep around/has an object of desire interest etc. other than you), why not allow him to share his roaming thoughts and desires with you—without blowing your lid? (like I mentioned earlier in the beginning of this write up when I mentioned: Men like to build at a humble abode, but still feel free. The only way to obtain the two is to not blow your lid…and while being his woman; be his friend to the extent that he feels “free” with you like one of the boys which too, can be shared, feasted upon and used a play to keep things hot, close and personal between the two of you (I’ll explain shortly).
Just like earlier when I mentioned: Let’s keep it as real all the way down to the science of the cloth from which the female species is emotionally cut and how she socializes in love and life (less any and all experiences she’s been through): No (unquestionably heterosexual) healthy-hearted and healthy-minded woman who totally knows (without a doubt) she is loved by a man that fully adores her and exhibits that he truly wants her and her only (and too), gives her unquestionably undivided 
security, affection, and stability agrees to an “open relationship.”
…let’s keep real with regard to men (in that regard), too:
All the way down to the science of the cloth from which the male species is emotionally cut and how he socializes in love and life, no matter how team-like and “close” it may seem between you two, no man is built to love and respect a woman that doesn’t help give him structure (with his freedom). And thinking you can offer a man the kind of freedom to roam to such self disrespectful lengths does not give him the kind of freedom you think, or makes him want the kind stability and team with a woman that would give him such a pass. But instead, if you will give him the kind of pass (that remains in home and between the relationship with the two of you only), this kind of intimacy reverses his psychology after a while (and cheating gets redundantly boring).
How do you create this form of intimacy and (self-respectable) “open relationship?”
I’ll tell you.
In a book I wrote, (it’s actually pretty much finished, just not published yet), called
