conquerable and comfortable.
Men SAY a lot of comforting things that feel comfortable (for them to get what they want and for the woman’s heart and head comfort)-they literally get in where you allow them to fit in.
But it’s what’s unconquerable that makes him more demonstrative. Obviously, at some point, that will be obtained but even a married woman has to balance keeping him on constant quests to conquer (to have earned and now keep her).