step in and takeover, I could do so-today, and work it out.
In this day and time with life and the goings of in it so uncertain, unpredictable and serious; I have a fuck a ‘family reunion’ mentality unless and until I thoroughly feel like you’ve demonstratively shown me that we are family outside of Christmas, and Thanksgiving dinner and a summer t-shirt in the park with some ketchup. Mustard and relish on a wooden bench. As an adult, as ‘family,’ we can’t chill like that unless I know we are family (as described in the previous paragraph).
When it comes to:
- relationship (commitment relationship)
and
- friendship
…all experiences and memories made are thoroughly bred from all things contingent: contingent upon the like reciprocation of all that mirrors me what I’ve reflected and given. To step outside of that is forbidden. ‘Unconditional love’ is for retarded people, babies, animals and old people-not for able bodies, (self proclaimed) sound minded people who to, claim to be of sound heart and spirit when it comes to me. If I’m shown anything other than that, it’s a wrap. I don’t unconditionally love someone who doesn’t love me (and proves/shows that). I love me too much to accept what doesn’t mirror the love I have for me. No passes. No exceptions to that rule-none, unapologetically with receipts to prove it.
In short: You’re gonna get it (from me) how you live it with me. Period. Dot.
Obviously, given what you just read about my stance on relationship and relatives, the sanctity of marriage, to me (you probably have already gathered) is serious business. But understand this: Serious “business” literally. I look at marriage and commitment like (in astrology-well past the tritely understood “meaning” ) of signs [like]:
- the growth process of Aries (1st sign of the zodiac) through to Pisces (the last sign of the zodiac)
- the time span and experiences in tween to teen through to adulthood
…With regard to relationship of commitment/marriage, that, to me is the Pisces, or the adulthood phase (where what needs to be built and planned on for life and through to death is where the “business” begins…and if two people are fortunate enough to build a literal business between them, that’s even better-the more significant and cemented; the better).
Courtship and ‘dating’ are like the Taurus through Aquarius age of life [like the years between 5-25], once the adult years arrive (from around the time a human’s full frontal lobe is developed-after age 26) regardless of how mature they are (or not), they are still considered to have a grasp on adulthood and how to function in a “normal” society.
The same is true in adult relationship of commitment/marriage. Well past the courtship and dating phase, when commitment is mutually, decided upon (age/commitment decision relative to beholder)-it’s a business-a personal business and investment in one another.
And one important part of the business of relationship/commitment is of course all that is significant and cemented in life, but too—in death as well.
Obviously we all know that when vows are exchanged, we all know that “to have and to hold until death do us part” means thou shall not part unless and until one or the other has died and passed on (therefore parting was inevitable).
But it is possible to kill a marriage while both parties are still alive? Yes. It is.
Take for instance rapper Snoop’s recent revelation that he said (while living and breathing) he is not going to leave a will, and from wherever his spirit rests, he’ll just
