(paparazzi invited events) such as: him sitting in the audience of her games, monumental events like NYFW etc-should be off limits.
Why?
Granted, there are some celebs who are in dire straits-therefore [those celebs] are in dire need for all the publicity they can get. If they are seen with a giraffe in public, no animal is off limits or exempt. They need it.
Drake and Serena on the other hand are both successful on 100% work/talent/skill/merit and pretty much NEVER need fluff and bullsh/t publicity to garner attention for each of their respective craft.
That being the case, (as a WOMAN who likes/loves a man-not just a “celebrity”), Serena has a clear opportunity to make sure Drake isn’t being an opportunist and means well by her (again-because he DOESN’T need the publicity from her).
But that’s the just catch 22 with Drake and his m.o since being on the scene.
Drake’s image (since being on the scene) always comes with a package of being seen on the scene by chicks who (no matter how “ho-ish” or “thotish,” are doing something around social media that they are known for, or either they are already know in the spotlight-respectable, redeemable or otherwise).
Granted, he is a celebrity and ‘relationships’ like such go without saying; but unlike even most rappers in the industry, Drake’s dips seem very much apart of his image’s package and image—until he dips….and on to the next.
If Serena’s anything smart and wants to test Drake’s TRUE affections, he would be miles away from being seen with her at NYFW, in the stands at her games and anywhere papz have invitations.
Drake hasn’t EARNED the right to be apart of Serena’s fashion moment like such and on the 1’s and 2’s until he has proven he is on his Ps and Qs by her.
Only girls who do NOT know the game of men are running around romantically living vicariously through Drake’s “attentiveness” “pursuit,” and “support” of Serena these days (yet again–in the same way, and fashion as before).
Drake’s entire female repertoire and m-o dictates that (although his talent doesn’t need it) they’ve been very much useful opportunities for him (in ‘thickening his image’) as much, and as well as some of the “thots” “strippers” and “video hos” too, have reed-up and gotten notoriety from him.
Given his m-o with all of them (and too), the fact that Serena (too) was thrown into that route’s bag; this second time around (to be sure of his affections) all routes to her should be personal, private and (if anything) mere sightings and stolen pap pics-not such that suits his typical/usual/notorious serial “dating” m-o ………..(and same route he took with Serena in 2011).
Any man will make time for what he wants, especially if it’s beneficial to him…
It’s REAL when he makes time for what he wants simply for no other reason that the fact that he simply wants it/her (no bells, whistles, connects, big cities, front rows, bleacher seats, red carpets, cameras, or bright lights).
If you have the opportunity (to make sure he is not being an opportunist), make sure he takes the necessary steps to make you know he really does ‘want’ YOU…not the idea of, image-layering of an opportunity of, and spotlight WITH YOU (ultimately, for him/his image).
Never let a man (celeb or regular dude) court you the same way-twice. If you do, you’re already at a loss at the door. Make him come back in a different way than he went out, for, there was a reason the first time didn’t work out.
Never give a man the chance and opportunity to come back to your life only to do a repeat of the same. Because, well… he’ll repeat the same.
