stand or better yet: hates. Sex for a man doesn’t require a “reason” (like it does for a woman) but rather-a place (to do it). That’s all he needs.
Sex Is Not Emotional For Men, Real Relationships Are Emotional For Men
Sex is not an emotional experience for a man until he is at an emotional level with a woman. No matter how high and intense the octaves of the moans, the direction of his stroke and the words he says when he’s making love, sexing, or fcking you or whatever word you choose to call the experience) men are bigger Prima Dona about choosing a mate for his life or to settle down with than a woman EVER think she is, and sex for men is NOT an emotional experience until his experience with a woman is emotional and functional as HE plans it out in HIS mind.
Men make love to all women the same way however, are reactive lovers depending on how she put out and receives him.
A cheating husband that loves and adores his wife will still make love to his other woman in the same ways he lays with his wife (depending on how long he’s known the other woman, how well he knows the other woman’s dating/sexual pattern + how familiar he is with her).
Once a woman realizes a man can have sex with a woman he can’t stand, then you HAVE to know that to reach a man at an emotional level takes MORE than just sex. So just because that “other woman” CAN get the same treatment in bed that he gives to his wife, that doesn’t change his mind (and even his heart) about his wife (with whom he is/has built/building a life). THAT is where is emotions lay (and lay up).
That’s a good tip to be aware of when you’re ready to fall out over hearing he cheated. It aint right (or acceptable) but it typically aint that ‘deep’ either. RELAX!
The Mario Effect: Men See Women and Relationships/Dating Like A Building Game With Numbers, Blocks And Levels
Men are builders. Like a little Mario Brothers/Donkey Kong game. Men look to build and plan (for the woman who reaches him past sex). All else are just a “sport” to him and women are put on tiers. (Every man that just read that line, clapped and agreed I assure you)…
Due to gender roles expectations of men (to have money, be providers, be many/virile, masculine etc), men are out in this world juggling women like a game. They are dealing with their expectations of society placing demands on them and determining YOUR expectations MATCHING what society expects of him versus IF he can meets societies AND yours or if you fit HIS criteria to build with (make serious plans on a life with you and actively working towards it), play with (“date” you, have sex with you and give you a little more quality time than a girl he simply lays with—that goes without explanation but if you need one: the girl he simply hooks up with once or from time to time and doesn’t date or spend any quality time with whatsoever).
Men Put Women On Tiers-Like Systems
You have to understand something about men: Juggling women for men is a full time job multiplied by 10 full time jobs. They spend yearssssssss of their lives working out algorithms in their minds, hearts, lives, and circumstances in order to determine what TIER to put you on. Men put women on tier-like systems from their heads, hearts, pockets and penis.’ And they ascend and descend them until that one tier where he’s not revisiting or that other where he’ll have a woman sitting for his by default/survival need. The other tiers stay getting juggled all his life until “the one” rises to the top (gradually or abruptly-depending on the man and yours + his circumstances).
ANY woman who thinks she is more picky and particular about choosing a mate for her life is crazy. Women settle (and exhale at the slightest gesture and mediocre criteria met).
Men do NOT. But they WILL lay with you, play with you and will even stay (live) with you, but men do NOT “settle.”
Men survive-and men can survive [what seems like a relationship to the woman] for YEARS. That’s why if they leave (relationships they are surviving RATHER THAN
