‘hole in the condom’ or ‘no condom worn’ stories that resulted in a baby, child support and a Beemer she’d roll to the club in and everybody knew her story and monthly child support amount.
Same story warmed over year after year.
I have theories as to why i.e., the socialization of men v. women and women v. men, social status and socioeconomics-all that (but that’s for conversation later should it ever come up—depending on what these people’s answers are), but having explained that, I’ve always had deeper questions like such but didn’t want to offend anyone, (so trust that if I ever interview you in the future when I start my radio show, I will be fair in giving you the option to scratch off what I can and cannot ask but just know I am merely “people” curious-not in judgmental way-but always interested in knowing what motivates people to do certain things. I have an upfront, and candid “way” about me, but trust me-I’m never judging you-because I believe that what everything everybody does is specific to their own experience, drive, dream, or reasons. Me? I just-be wanting to know: Why-so that’ll be am eventual feature.
Understand that that’s just my thing and the kind of person I am. I will seek to understand you before I judge you or reflect enmity.
My person and in being around me, you always feel comfortable because I’m open-I do have a way about me that gives you permission to do the same. No one who knows me personally can, or will ever tell you they felt guarded around me for fear of being judged around me (unless they know they did some sinister stuff and I got guarded and the “permitting” to “allow” was no more).
Other than that, I’m a genuinely interested person and am okay with knowing what motivates people to do certain things we all tend to instantly judge. Me? You are more likely to hear that I defended you when a crowd of people sh\tted on you versus the latter.
I don’t follow crowds when the route isn’t well-though out enough simply because they majority sits one way.
I never cared about rocking boats.
In my lifetime, I’ve been stripped of and broken down in ways that I became a natural survivor in doing without certain things or certain people because I have a skill (and the skills) to rebuild, regroup, and repair from scratch-like a chameleon and I happen to enjoy doing it. With that being said, it’s
