lay low-for, she had snooped and been patient all this time. This time was no more ‘special’ than the rest, he was just meeting up with her in another city.
I m
entioned all that to say this: The ONLY control over this kind of a situation a woman has is that she is getting what SHE wants out of a relationship with a man, all the while making sure that she isn’t wasting her time such that he’s not afraid to lose her.
The ONLY “power” a woman has over a man (in all his tiers, tricks, and blinks) is that he is afraid to lose her. Because in the bigger scheme of things, all these women on a man’s voice mail, text (and even his bedroom) really don’t really mean a thing to him, usually.
BUT….The fact of the matter is ONE woman does.
As a woman, you’d just better hope that woman is YOU (that he’s afraid to lose).
At any rate (in getting back to making sure when things like this happen and your heart and these texts are in your hand) other than that, there’s really no other things to know about a man and how he operates other than one thing: The main thing about a man (whether you accept it or not…that won’t stop)…is his varying degrees of flirting, re-ups (“blinking”). But as woman (in the bigger scheme of things) you just have to know that alongside that, when it comes to a man, his emotions are mostly attached to:
-where he chooses to build and secure
-what he’s afraid to lose
-what he will do for a woman (his quality time, undivided attention, and money are important to him)
When it comes to a man, you canNOT control his “blinks” in his day-to-day. It’s impossible. But what you do have to do (where you and your heart are concerned)….is know this:
Whatever you want from and out of the relationship with the man you love (be it):
- emotional
- physical
- financial
- sexual/affection/attention/quality time etc.
…what you DO have to know is that right there in his phone (or out here in the world of “blinking”), there IS one woman who can get it
