“requirements” on our lists.
Men however, will NOT. That’s where men are (secretly) “queenly” (and less lenient than women, believe it or not). But if they are “surviving” a woman won’t know it. She’ll simply carry on in this “relationship” that this man can actually survive with her (for YEARS undetected).
ALL women, where it happened to her or her girlfriend or some close friend, knows of a relationship with a man that (to her knowledge) she was in a “real” relationship. But just one day, the dude peeled or disappeared or “broke up with her” just like that *snaps finger. That’s because he was “surviving” because again: men don’t settle–THEY SURVIVE (and can, for years).
In this upcoming chapter excerpt I show women what to look out for to avoid that happening to them…
But back to this discussion that was being had (as mentioned in the first paragraph).
A television actress started this discussion that I was around in some time ago-where she made a comment (about the “Dating Naked” show) and said: “Oh that’s a good idea because that way you don’t have it up only to find out he wasn’t working with nothing.”
Truthfully my mouth dropped. Not because I was judging her. But because as a woman, that shocked me because as a teen having promiscuous sex, I could (kinda) expect to hear something like that [from a teen]. But as a grown woman, I was shocked, but glad to be in and around this conversation because I totally had no idea that grown, single women hadn’t developed her own “intimate moment techniques” that she uses when making out with a man-one that would enable her to get that answer (what he was or was not working with) LONG before he entered her.
I have to be honest, I cannot lie. When I hear a grown woman (especially a self-proclaimed “size queen” ) admit that a man was inside of her vagina before being inside of her hand (literally); I swear I imagine she still wipes from back to front. It’s like that meme floating around: You should’ve been “waiting for that at the door!” A woman should have that answer head-on (literally). An ounce of ‘manhandling’ with save her pounds of ‘poundage,’ her self-esteem, and her reputation.
When a woman is single and out here in the dating game, she may be caught in various compromising positions during hot/heated intimate moments. But at some point in this dating game, she has to develop her own sexual swag and technique to get her answer (while still giving him pleasure/finishing him off but WITHOUT him being way inside her for her “yay” or nay” answer to be decided upon). That’s out of control. She’s
