get (public displays of affection and pleads to take you back like this):
“Can’t sit here and act industry like this sh/t don’t hurt me.”
or
“You the only girl I can call at 3 in the morning and you’ll answer no problem. You the only girl that can wake up out of a dead sleep and get me some water because I was coughing in my sleep/the only girl that loves me the way you were supposed to. I miss you to much to watch you look so amazing at the Clive Davis party and not be able to call you and express how much I appreciated the look because you won’t answer nor text back. The feeling is horrible.”
or:
“I just wanna tell you I’m still being a good boy just in case you come to your senses. Valentine’s Day was supposed to be a special day. I wanted that to be our anniversary because it’s your grandparents and maybe we could’ve double dated remember? Please call me back. I just want like a hug and a kiss or something.”
or:
“Mentally and physically I am weak.”
or:
“My imagination is a horrible place that I battle with in my relationship (being jealous) etc. I say to myself maybe I should work out till I push evil thoughts out of me and ask God to shine light in the dark.”
Well American Idol winner and pop singer Jordin Sparks is probably a happy camper right now considering these types of (public) messages sent for her via social media were ones she never responded to (as far a we know), and if (behind closed doors) she didn’t these next quotes coming from (who she thought) was her true boyfriend,
…went a little something like this (to someone else—his ex girlfriend from ‘round the way):
“I can put that on my motherfckn daughter. That sh/t was fake or whatever. All that sh/t went South. Everything was fckn horrible. I 
wanted to stab her” (because she was so annoying).
and:
“Remember I deleted my Instagram once, then my manager was like ‘No, bring it back? How is your album going to sell? How are you going to put an album out?’ Now publicists were meeting with publicists, because her album was coming out, and then my album was finna come out the next day.”
Welp. That’s L.A singer/rapper Sage The Gemini, whom Jordin took up with after being played by pop star Jason Derulo.
Although we (and Jordin) all thought Sage The Gemini was the one, turns out, (for him) it was all for publicity.
The ex girlfriend leaked the audio of their conversation:
https://youtu.be/DKlpG9xgrG4
Although Gemini’s are known for ‘double-talk’ and being dual-natured…regardless your sign; there is a lesson here for all:
- Tend to your own #relationshipgoals tailored to your own life (you never know what’s real in other people’s)
- In this new millennium, if it’s on display (it’s probably not real for play)
- If it’s on display, your focus becomes dressing the relationship up for the world (and so your cycle of shenanigans will continue)
- Celebrity ‘life’ and ‘love’ is its own “life” and “love” separate from regular love and life. Sometimes it’s real, sometimes it’s not.
But in regular life, if your [being in a relationship] is all and the sole focus you have to define and display of yourself to the world; you’re not done having a relationship with your self yet.
But it’s never to late to start having that as a relationshipgoal -ever.
