that may go over well with your husband (or even a serious/mutually committed boyfriend) is a wholllllllllle new ball game for acts like such to be ‘shared’ with a celebs/pro sports players honey-baby.
…Cardinal no-no’s.
Because As I explain in Gem #11 of my unpublished book called Feel Like a Lady, Deal Like a Man: Tips & Secrets on Everything from: Self Esteem, Friends, Love, Sex and Men
…scenarios and stories like such are tooooo typical (given their lifestyle) therefore women (who do not want to be consider as the “good time girl”) at merely ‘dating’ them, canNOT consent, or even DISCUSS (during phone sex, text sex, Facetime, pillow talk etc.) typical things with these types who for [these typical things] are very much apart of their norm (given their lifestyles).
For these types and the daily reinforcement and conditioning of their minds and lifestyles, unless you are engaged and nearly on your way to walking down the aisle with these types, acts like such with these types are reserved and branded in their minds as play for the sleuth of “good time girls” (even ones that they ‘date’ for years) honey baby.
It takes an extreme amount of intimate-emotional detox to wind these types down from their typical, instant-gratifying worlds in which they live that even ‘dating’ them for a certain amount of time can’t wrestle and romp with. Married ones’ wives can even vouch for that and too, face that daunting task, daily–for years.
Fact of that matter is, they have a plethora of “good time” girls and certain kinds of “play” is risqué with these dudes. Because chances are (and as time has proven) typically…when it goes down (like such), the ball hardly EVER ends up in your court (in court, or emotionally/during courting these types) Why? Redundantly I will repeat: because it’s toooooo “TYPICAL.”
If you don’t want to be ‘the good time girl’, merely ‘dating’ these types requires you to be alert, and aware–and handle yourself in an atypical type of way because basically, every girl is ‘the good time girl.’ Even the ones they ‘date’ and spend money on. Money is no object for men who have world power, success and money. Typically, the ‘object’ is you.
So (if you DON’T want to be thought as, judged for or seen as the “good time girl”) don’t be a common woman who puts herself in typical situations with common types of men and there’s no harm, no foul.
