what I can offer is a suggestion to rethink reel rations given to the world conducive or commensurate to your hustle but not one (unnecessary) second, move or thing above and beyond that (where rethinking whatever “scared” means to you and what about you should be kept sacred and discovered about you that all the world doesn’t have access to).
Sacred to the extent that-what sacred things about you, you would like to be a surprise for your lover (or prospective love) near or far that they can proudly say are things only they experienced about you and your person outside of your ‘persona’ (that the world already had/has access to).
Well that’s just one (major) way of absence making the heart grow fonder that we tend to overlook and not take into consideration-especially when we feed into these man-made college-boy made systems invented to socialize. While they are genius for business and brands, on a personal level, it completely ruins the hunger to explore and discover people in ways that before its invention, we once craved and had to have as, our imaginations needed to be settled. Our pursuit of people and interest in knowing them past the surface was higher when we didn’t have access to them being unwrapped for the world.
Now (today), our imaginations are filled up (and for some-overfilled) which lessens our desire to get in to people past the surface and in ways that (before we turned on our cell phones give it away in 15 second 
increments daily), had to be discovered in weeks and sometimes years.
Well absence making the heart grow fonder in the most natural and atypical way was displayed by Mikki Miller of Minnesota who thought of a unique and cute way of being there for her boyfriend Tyson Noël of British Columbia, Canada.
When she went to visit Noël over Christmas, she tucked away-a briefcase filled with letters sealed with kisses and all kinds cuteness for nearly every emotion on any given day Tyson Noël would experience in her absence. And whenever the feeling matched what was written on the the envelope; he was instructed to open.
Take a look:
