use you as a convenience during his ‘in the mean time and between times.’ That will be his “passion” point with you-the part that excites him the most and where he will always thrive and be at his best. It is that part where he leaves and comes back (to your open arms) at whim. When he grows bored of being caught up in the moment of this revolving door fallacy-he’s off again (until next time). In our lifetime, we’ve all been that woman (at least once) and we’ve all, always had that one guy (with those revolving door ‘privileges’ and lifetime memberships to our hearts, minds, bodies, souls–and moods).
In the game of love with men, the girl who “wins” is, and always will be that girl he never felt like he ever just…”caught.”And believe it or not, such a woman can lay next to that man every single night-for years, ’til death do them part. But she’s gotta know her power and maintain her mystery while balancing it with just enough that makes him want to stay (and be afraid to leave).
To put it short (and to stay out of the way of Drakey’s Scorp venom…) the name of the game with a guy is simple: You’re no good to him or he-you if he’s not afraid to lose you. So if he’s unafraid to simply walk out and leave you well: he’s unafraid to lose you AND he’s unafraid to leave you. And well…