You want to know why I respect & celebrate Paris Hilton’s grind? I’ll tell you why:
It’s a funny thing about “grind.”
When incentive for it is in action (meaning: you’re eating off your grind, living off of it, or whether whatever you’re seeking in exchange for your grind–be it money, attention ,fame, praise etc.,)…when those things are in effect and happening; it’s human nature and a natural reaction to act on the fact that you are getting that incentive. It’s a reward, and reinforcement…so quite naturally, you keep at it.
That aint sh!t. That’s easy.
Yet, what kills me about most people who are at that stage—is that…they kill me running around the Internet and in life, calculating somebody else’s grind (or not), and forgetting that their own PERSONAL motivation for grinding is because they are receiving some reward (or incentive for it)-not taking into account anymore what “hungry” grind is.
Phuck yo stories that we can’t prove…(about what your spirits were like at that stage of grinding with NO incentive and reinforcement).
Before the Twitter’s and the FB’s etc. NOBODY really has proof of what your spirits were like before that incentive kicked in for your own grind. Those same finger pointers quickly forget that most people out in Internet land’s will gets weak (when they have yet to receive ANY incentive for their grind).
Some people still grind hungry and dreaming, and a few give up. Other people take the weak, self-defeating way out: Get angry, or stay in attendance of other people’s grind and hate on them all day as if it’s motivation for them…………..to still do nothing…as if there is some reward in that, and it’s not….trust me. You break your own spirit.
The point is, it’s EASY to point fingers and calculate and clock other people’s grind, willingness to grind (or no) when you (pointing) are already receiving incentive for grinding.
That, to me, is the equivalent of somebody who grinds hard with NO incentive (praise, dick-rides, money or fame etc.), yet, they still grind for the grind, and the dream like it’s their JOB. And when I giggle and do her stories, I look at that.
She’s BEEN famous (before birth).
She’s BEEN eating-out the womb (never been a poor dreamer).
She did + delved into the EASY WAY of making a “living;” dabbling around the Internet and television playing dumb, talentless, and rich for nothing where since her-it’s done TO get rich. She paved the way…
Yet, NOW, she’s done playing talentless and dumb. She’s past all the coonery and “easy-way” fame (being famous for NOTHING)-running around candying herself out, yet……her rich ass and will get out here and grind like she’s POOR!
I was perplexed and now, am IMPRESSED by that…
That…my dear is “grind” …and “hustle..” …And again: is the equivalent of somebody with ZERO incentive and who too, is willing to grind in the same way–as if they are already getting incentive (praise, money, fame, etc) for their grind but are not…
Where are you in all this/these examples?
In case you haven’t noticed, take a squiq atop this blog and go through the tabs…I try (where I can) to blog more than just about frivolous celeb gossip, a pair of shoes, and who had on what and did what (that served no one but themselves). If I see a lesson or something we all can learn, I’m all over it (and the story or celeb)…like Paris.
Hopefully, now that I explained this, it will inspire you.
Because trust me when I say this, when I first blogged about her, I laughed. I said to myself aloud: “Why bother!? [wanting something other than being rich/famous when you can just BE rich?] and kick back?”
But then..I started PAYING ATTENTION to what I was writing and well…the writing was right on the wall.
PAY ATTENTION (and pay attention to what/how I write)…
I’m not just a “blogger,” there’s a method to [what may seem like]: Madness, so I “get it.”
I get it…
In my opinion, Birdman was smart in taking her on–and putting her on.
His business acumen to me (even moreso), is on another level. I would MUCH rather take a chance on a grinding m/f out here willing to grind than a m/f out here grinding at being “simple” and calling it grind. Sure, there will ALWAYS be avenues, occupations, and open doors for simple-life type bullsh!t. But at the end of the day, you’ll always envy somebody else’s real grind and sleep wondering who you are, and what you’re really made of.
Paris must’ve gone through that. I can tell. She either had some real soul-searching going on or somebody grabbed a hold of her and had “the talk.”
I can tell.
Regardless whatever you feel about her/her grind, it’s a alive and well. And she will work at it and is willing to. And I have a cute newfound respect for her. I just do.
She’s a “humble beginning” without having come from “humble beginnings.”
- GRIND LIKE NOBODY’S WATCHING. JUST SEE YOURSELF
- ACCEPT, BUT FOR THE MOST PART, IGNORE FRIVOLOUS PRAISE-ESPECIALLY IF THEY’RE NOT LOOKING YOU IN THE FACE & EYES WITH THEIR HAND SQUEEZING YOUR ARM TRYING TO MAKE YOU FEEL THEIR SINCERITY, OR HOPING TO SOAK SOME TRUE INSPIRATION FROM YOU, IN THAT WAY–THAT TOUCH
- MUSCLES ARE BUILT FROM RESISTANCE. YOU’RE STRONGER WHEN YOU RESIST OR ARE RESISTED. TOO MUCH OF ANYTHING MAKES YOU WEAK. ASK A FIGHTER ABOUT THAT WIN AFTER GETTING SOME DAY OF/NIGHT BEFORE-HOW’D THAT WORK OUT FOR HIM?
- BE LIKE PARIS. SHE “INSISTS”
- AND WELL, LASTLY…GRIND LIKE PARIS: LIKE YOU’RE RICH AND JUST WANT IT, OR IF NOT RICH-GRIND LIKE YOU ALREADY GOT IT!