Absence Making The Heart Grow Fonder: Why We Are Less “Fond” Today Than Ever Before + What One Woman Did For Her Boyfriend in the EVENTS of Her Absence

all there is to know about you), there’s not much his imagination can crave, feel angst or anxious about in ways that makes him want to know more about you (that he, along with the world doesn’t already know).

That’s where this new world order of things ruin the sacred and the “sexy.” It kills the mystery of some of the most beautiful women who arlong-distance-relationshipe single (and making due with being okay with it by default over preference).

Although (for some women, it’s true: it’s how they really feel-they seriously want to be single), for other women, the cycle of how their courtships and relationships with men do just that: run a cycle and run its course so by default they latch on to that reason (or excuse).

glitter gold starKeep it true with yourself (to avoid breakdowns later): Any and all unquestionably heterosexual women want love and life “forever ’til death do us part.” It’s easy to cop a plea of the decided dyke or default lesbian (or even the happily and contented single, liberated woman) when we are exhausted of the course being run one time too many for our time, our lives, and our hearts to take chances on anymore.

Often times it’s not that we are undateable, but if 80% about every literal little thing about you is spread across 15 second videos for all the world to see and experience everyday—up to and including the person you want to get to know and experience you (personally), by that time-there’s nothing left to be desired.

If he already knows so many aspects of how you are, you are no surprise to him. There are no aspects to your (personal) person when you wake up to the world and yawn in a 15 second video that the entire world over has access to.

There’s no growing “fond” of a presence that’s always there but unwrapped farther and farther everyday. That’s just the reality of it all.

 

glitter gold starWhile it would be nice to offer a solution, it’s kind of (generally) hard to “measure” but certainly goal-specific: How much do you want to give to the entire world and of that, what’s left about you for a person to want to give you the world?

I can’t truthfully say that if saturation is too widespread already-it’s irreversible; but if love is important to you,

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